Tuesday, October 18, 2005

you out of your mind?

Most of my XYand XX friends always debate with me over some interesting topics. This particular million-dollar topic actually came up over the weekend.

Since we all didn't come to an agreement(not sure if there'll be any) on this topic, I decided to bring this up to an independent and non-biased audience, that's you!

Remember, the following questions apply to everyone(single, dating, married). So here you go...

Do you think it's possible to have a GOOD BUDDY of the opposite sex? Why yes and why no?

13 Comments:

At Tuesday, October 18, 2005 7:38:00 AM, Blogger kukukucinta said...

why not? in fact, all my good buddies are guys. they provide a different point of view and are less bitchy. somehow i cant click very well with girls...

 
At Tuesday, October 18, 2005 9:40:00 AM, Blogger shookmeallnightlong said...

YEAP!

got a few myself

 
At Tuesday, October 18, 2005 10:36:00 AM, Blogger Winn said...

Yes..
unless both keep a reasonable distance but still enforcing the buddy-buddy bond

 
At Tuesday, October 18, 2005 11:00:00 AM, Blogger juz_A_ga| said...

yes. it's possible. but my best pals are female.

 
At Tuesday, October 18, 2005 4:08:00 PM, Blogger Cynthia said...

YES of course! most of my buddies are guys anyway. I had several shitty experince with girl friends, suX. I trust much no (less) more.

 
At Tuesday, October 18, 2005 5:35:00 PM, Blogger OMFG!! said...

i had a few of them, i had a buddy and is a she for 10 years...

 
At Wednesday, October 19, 2005 1:40:00 AM, Blogger Fashionasia said...

i do think so yes.... but i guess if you're attached, its best not to....just to prevent some unwanted emo turmoil thingy happening.......
ya know what i mean.

 
At Wednesday, October 19, 2005 1:53:00 AM, Blogger Chen said...

why not? :) it's of course possible..
I have few good buddies guy friends :)

 
At Wednesday, October 19, 2005 2:40:00 AM, Blogger Dak-Ind said...

i think it is possible but not always probable. I have some wonderful male freinds, and i dont even think about their gender. My husband has a couple of female freinds. It can be awkward with men having women freinds because we women are the jealous types. I KNOW that i am not going to be messing around, but i dont trust another woman not to try to fool around with my husband if they were to go "hang out" somewhere together. So yes, a person can have other gender freinds, but is it wise to do so if it causes disruption in the commited relationship?

 
At Wednesday, October 19, 2005 5:37:00 AM, Blogger Furkids In Hong Kong said...

Personally yes. I think quite a lot depends on the mentality of all four parties; male, female and his/her other half.

Quite simply, if any 1 (or more) of the aforementioned can't take sex/unfaithfullness off their mind, then it's not worth it.

8 out of 10 of my friends are females. My 2 best friends are females of which I've known for 3 and 15 years respectively. The feeling was like from being friends to really good friends, to siblings, to family member. Fortunately, our other halves are understanding and are almost always together in our outings of which I don't think any of us realize anymore the gender of one another.

Hope I made sense. :)

 
At Wednesday, October 19, 2005 7:25:00 AM, Blogger humblewarrior said...

I agree with all of you. And I think it's ok as long as everyone respects each other.

Thanks for all your comments!

 
At Friday, October 21, 2005 2:54:00 AM, Blogger day-dreamer said...

Give me 5 reasons why not. It's okay to have a good buddy of the opposite sex. I have a few myself, and our friendship are based on respect. We are like brother and sister!

 
At Saturday, October 22, 2005 4:23:00 PM, Blogger Gab said...

Definitely...i find my girl friends gossip and bitch most of the time. it's so depressing at times, whereas hanging out with guys can be less stressful..that's what i think.

 

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